ABOUT
MY VISION
Patio Perspectives is a space I created to slow down and reflect on life. It started as a personal outlet—a way to process everything I was going through, from the struggles in life and parenting to the moments of growth and learning that come along the way.
This blog is about being real. It’s where I write honestly about things like love, loss, identity, motherhood, and personal reflection and growth. . I don’t have it all figured out, but I believe there’s value in sharing the journey while you’re still on it.
The name Patio Perspectives comes from the idea that some of our best thoughts happen when we step outside for a moment—to breathe, to think, or just to be still. That’s what this blog is: a place to pause, reflect, and reconnect with what really matters.
If you’re looking for a space where you don’t have to have all the answers, you’re in the right place. I’m glad you’re here.
THE BLOGGER
​Hi, I’m Carmen. I’m a mom, an educator, and someone learning to show up honestly in the middle of life’s mess and beauty. Writing is how I process what I’m going through—whether it’s navigating family, personal growth, or finding moments of peace in chaos.
Patio Perspectives is my way of pressing pause. It’s where I reflect, tell the truth, and connect with others who might be feeling the same things but don’t always say them out loud.
MISSION
MY PURPOSE
To create an honest and reflective space where I can process life’s challenges, share personal growth, and connect with others through real, unfiltered storytelling.
Patio Perspectives exists to help me slow down, sit with what’s real, and find meaning in the everyday moments—especially the hard ones. Through writing, I hope to not only heal myself, but also offer comfort and connection to anyone who needs to know they’re not alone.